I've been thinking about my lifestyle recently (after reading this post by the lovely Jane, whose attitude towards these things I share) and I think I know why I've been struggling a little.
You see, I'm constantly exhausted lately. Through the fog of tiredness, I can see the shadows that suddenly seem permanently housed under my eyes and the state of my skin. It's not good.
I'm sure there are a number of factors causing this:
1. My diet has become more about grabbing whatever happens to be quick to prepare, rather than what's healthy.
2. I'm barely exercising.
3. I'm working too hard. I push and push and push myself.
4. Aside from work/writing, I don't do anything for myself.
(Sound familiar? Anyone nodding along with me here?!)
But all of those things are within my control.
I'm going to try and make some changes, beginning with my diet (I'll do another post about exercise, and perhaps another one about taking some time for me).
(By the way, when I use the word 'diet', I mean it in the long-term lifestyle sense. I don't do 'diets' as a short-term or fad thing. Never have and never will.)
Here's what I currently do in terms of food and drink:
Breakfast - either two eggs and multigrain toast or a bowl of porridge.
Morning tea - whatever happens to be around. Preferably something sweet.
Lunch - leftovers from the previous night's dinner. If nothing is quickly available, I'll just snack on whatever is in the fridge.
Afternoon tea - whatever happens to be around. Preferably something sweet. Will also snack on some nuts or biscuits and cheese during the day.
Dinner - either meat and three veg or pasta and meat sauce or risotto.
Dessert - something sweet.
Drinks - I'll have a glass of orange juice with breakfast, then drink water all day and usually with dinner. A couple of nights a week I'll have a glass of wine with dinner.
Honestly, I read that and I just want to yawn. And eat chocolate.
So here's what I need to change - and I can see it SO clearly now that I've written all that (and been honest with myself, even though I really wanted to write more interesting things there!):
Breakfast - I'm a creature of habit when it comes to breakfast, and I think my options are healthy enough. The only thing I'd probably change is to also have some yoghurt - I love a big brekky.
Morning tea - fruit. I will need to force myself. I don't like fruit. (If you have any ideas to make fruit more interesting, please feel free to let me know via comment or email!)
Lunch - I often used to eat pasta for lunch, which I think would be okay. Dinner leftovers are usually healthy too. Otherwise, if I get back to planning my meals and food shopping a bit better, I could have something like a chicken salad or - as a faster option - a multigrain toasted cheese sandwich (not too often - I don't like bread, although I can handle it if it's toasted to a perfect crispy brown, absent of any soft bits). (Yes, I am a crazy woman.)
Afternoon tea - probably more fruit. (Ideas pleeeease!)
Dinner - we used to eat such great dinners. Fresh pasta, beautiful vegies with nice sauces, trying new things. Now we've gone back to basics and I'm not happy about it (basic is good, but not all the time). This is just a matter of taking the time to plan a good meal before doing the food shopping, and seeing the time it takes to cook a good meal as worthwhile. Which it really, really is.
Dessert - okay, I don't intend to fully cut out sweets. But I think once a day should be plenty!
Drinks - I think I'm all good there. I just need to make sure I drink enough water, as busyness can make me forget about it at times.
I've also taken a look at the old food pyramid (remember that from your school days?!) to see where I sit:
Vegetables - five serves
Fruit - two serves
Dairy – two serves
Meat, eggs, nuts, fish, lentils, etc. – one to two serves
Breads, cereals, rice and pasta – four to six serves(Source 1, Source 2) My big downfalls have always been fruit and dairy. So I'll really have to focus on those I think. Everything else should be okay with my new plan.
Oh, and as a matter of interest, and because I found this information a little difficult to come by, I thought I'd share the healthy eating guide for kids too (this is for toddlers up to about eleven years - it only changes very slightly after that):
Vegetables - two to four serves
Fruit - one to two serves
Dairy – three serves
Meat, eggs, nuts, fish, lentils, etc. – one to two serves
Breads, cereals, rice and pasta – three to five serves(Source) Interesting to note that Abbey's diet is virtually perfect according to this. Anyone sense a bit of 'do as I say and not as I do' in this household?
How about you? Do you feel you need to make changes to your diet? Do you feed your kids better than yourself? Any food ideas to share?
Megan

I'm with you on the fruit thing... but at least when I'm at work the children are only allowed fruit for snack, so that means I do too.
ReplyDeleteMy best fruit tip is I incorporate it in my breakfast, usually porridge, when it's cooked I grab a big handful of frozen raspberries and mix through so they thaw, add a big dollop of yoghurt and yum. Healthy & 3 of the daily food serves in one! I summer smoothies for breakfast can give you all your fruit serves in one go.
To keep food options less routine I use delicious magazine, lots of options every month that are healthy and so, so yum!
As for other ways to eat fruit? Hubby said I couldn't do it, ah yes a challenge, stubborn me just couldn't let him be right!
Good luck x
Fruit? I make fruit pies... I have a pie maker and I make pies with banana and apples in them.. The one's u buy at the supermarket are all processed, where I just smoosh a banana into the pie and cook it up.. a good healthy dessert.. I don't put cream or ice-cream on it.. and the other suggestion nay made of fruit smoothies... that could be a good snack for morning tea.. I find a high-protein diet keeps me fuller for longer.. so I often have a smoothie with milk and fruit for a snack....
ReplyDeleteIf you have to cook for kids, too, here are some quick, easy and healthy meal ideas that the whole family will actually eat.
ReplyDeletehttp://babyminding.com/2007/09/12/is-this-a-healthy-dinner/
I'm with Nomie - I'm not great with eating fruit (except banana - love a good na-na), so I incorporate it in to my brekky. French toast with blueberries, strawberries & banana, or porridge with mashed banana.
ReplyDeleteYou know what makes a great snack? Thin slices of green apple with a little parmesan cheese shaved on top.
I think exercise is the key to lifting your mood and increasing your energy. I've gone back to hitting the treadmill 4-5 times per week for about 40 mins at a time, and I feel much happier and I feel so much less tired! I also stopped drinking any wine during the week a while ago. Weekends only now, except for a special occasion (I had a glass of champers at brunch for a friend's 40th bday yesterday...nice).
Go for it. Everything in moderation, I say, and regular exercise is the key! xxx
I hear you. I too have taken some steps to try to combat my current inertia in the area of healthy living. It seems a breeze is blowing through the blogosphere.
ReplyDeleteGood on you! The first thing to do is notice and then, make changes. I love that you have analysed what you are doing. I like to be in denial about these things. lol.
ReplyDeleteI am not great with fruit either, but have improved since having the kids. They eat a couple of pieces a day, so I find that I do too. I like Jodie's apple and parmesan suggestion - taste sensation!
Thanks all!
ReplyDeleteNomie, Em & Jodie - thanks for the suggestions! Will definitely give them a try. xx
Hi there,
ReplyDeleteI've discovered you via Lucy's Fat to Fit bloghop.
I too am a bit of a fruit-o-phobe and since returning to a healthier eating regime last week I've found the following have worked.
1. Create a fresh fruit smoothy [we have a great blender and you can throw in a whole stack of large chunks and it works fine] my favourite has either big whacks of ginger or mint to give it a real zing!
2. For my morning or afternoon break I have been cutting up a crunchy apple and putting it on a plate with a small handful of nuts [usually almonds] and a slice of cheese. I mix and match the combos when popping into my mouth and it's actually quite yummy.
Good luck with your quest for increasing energy.
x Felicity
I start my day with a bowl of oats loaded with a variety of fruit. It's yummy! With the fruit, I don't have to add sugar or honey.
ReplyDeleteI found that when I started drinking more water I got more energy. Might help you too.
You're definitely off to a great start.
ReplyDeleteI'll admit I have trouble eating fruit sometimes. So I'm definitely going to borrow some ideas from your comments.
I sometimes find variety can make a big difference though.
Good luck. xxx
If we just gave our own diets the same love and attention we give our children's diets, we'd be trim and healthy in no time. Lesson!! x
ReplyDeleteYou've got a great plan there, you CAN do this :)
ReplyDeleteHello Megan! I stumbled upon your blog through the Fat 2 Fit hop. I just wanted to wish you well on your weight loss journey. Your plan sounds like a great plan to me! :)
ReplyDeleteTaking a closer look at what I was eating (and DRINKING) gave me one of those Ahhaaaa moments.
ReplyDeleteGo with the plan!
Found you on the Blog Hop! Best of luck to you on your journey!
ReplyDeleteif diary and fruit are your issue try slices of apple as a spoon for your yoghurt... always works for me
ReplyDeleteGood luck!
Oh I am really bad at the fruit and veg thing. I make sure my baby gets it all in a day, but I can easily go a day just snacking and not eating a single decent meal. I might have to go back to keeping a food diary to make it happen, at least to get my fruit/veg/water fix. Writing it always makes me do it - that's why I blog about running.
ReplyDeleteI hear you, girl.
ReplyDeleteThis is something that happens frequently in our house - I start, feel great, then lapse. Start, feel great, then lapse.
It's funny, isn't it, how we make sure our kids eat an ideal diet but forget about ourselves...
x
Oh my goodness, I can't believe I missed this post! Thanks so much for linking to my blog.
ReplyDeleteI think I've finally achieved balance in my diet. Lots of fresh fruit and veg, plus meat, bread, and occasional cheesecake.
Lots of health kicks going on in the bloggosphere at the moment - definitely keeps me motivated! xx
Yes, I was nodding.
ReplyDeleteYour plan looks great.
Do you like fruit & yogurt smoothies?