I'm in this wonderfully positive headspace right now, having vented my negativity (thanks for listening and being so supportive!). So, I want us all to leave behind the frustrations and negativity today and think of the great things about being a parent.
So. What do you LOVE about being a parent?
Probably lots of things, right? Me too. But there's one thing I love above all else. My favourite part of being a parent.
When Abbey was little and learning to roll, I used to lie on the floor next to her, look into her eyes and tell her she could do it.
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| Abbey - 2 months |
And I did the same thing when she was trying to crawl, walk, run, climb... I know, many people told me I was crazy to encourage her to move around, but I disagreed, and still do disagree.
Because this was the best part. My little girl would look back at me, with determination in her eyes. And she'd do it.
As she grew, I kept at it. I still do. These days, I do the same thing when she's learning something new or if her confidence falters a little. I look at her and tell her she can do it.
And then I watch as I am rewarded with the best feeling in the world. These are the times my heart feels like it might just burst, as she tries - and usually succeeds - in doing what she is attempting.
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| Abbey - 8 months |
I love watching Abbey's confidence grow, seeing her joy as she realises she can do things herself.
What it shows me is that when someone believes in us, we can do anything.
My favourite part of parenting is encouraging my little girl. Showing her that I believe in her.
What's your favourite thing about being a parent?
Yeah I love that too! Independence is so double edged but I wouldn't have it any other way x
ReplyDeleteit is the best job in the world I think.
ReplyDeletei love that too & wish that we as children were encouraged like that aswell.
have a happy day ♥
I cant tell you my favourite part, but I can tell you I am so glad that parenting found me. I was of the "Doubt I will ever have/want children" tribe for many years.
ReplyDeleteI love the whole lot, dried weet bix, wet beds... snot on my shoulder isn't how I like to leave the house usually, but little squeaky voices saying, "Oh Mummy, look my snot is on your t shirt and looks like a tiger" makes me giggle on the inside rather than get all distressed about it.
My favourite bit is the belly laughs when you're having a crappy day, that stop you in your tracks and remind you that you have created this special little thing. I also love that it has taught me more about myself than I ever dreamed was possible. It also reinforces your values and puts life back into perspective.
ReplyDeleteI absolutely love discovering who God made my kids to be. They are all so unique and unearthing their little quirks and learning what makes them uniquely them is such a privilege. It's like a neverending treasure hunt :)
ReplyDeleteThat no matter how bad my day has been or how crazy my life is. My daughter can run up and give me a wet sloppy "Smoochie" on the lips and say "I love you SOOO much mummy" and all my worries go away.
ReplyDeleteLovely idea for a post - so often we complain about the hard stuff and neglect to talk about the good bits. I am filled with heart-bursting joy when I receive spontaneous cuddles, or see them achieve something or reach a milestone, and watching their little personalities emerge is so interesting. And they make me laugh so much. Oh and is there anything sweeter than a sleeping child? I could go on and on...!
ReplyDeleteDammit, this post has made me all clucky!
ReplyDeletexxx
I love it when they finally show you that they've been listening to you all these years.
ReplyDeleteI recall the time I rocked up to the park with all 3 boys and two other kids in tow. The 4yo was still in the stroller and I had bags galore, as well as school bags etc. I was standing there wondering how I was going to get it all down to the park, when my 8yo (then about 6) asked, "Mum, can I help you carry something?"
Gorgeous. I was on cloud 9.
Lovely post, hon. xxx
What a gorgeous sentiment. Teaching them self belief is the best thing. If they are confident they will succeed. If you believe, they will too. Abbey at 8 months is like, the cutest thing in the world! How did you not eat those arms right off? x
ReplyDeleteGorgeous post! As a brand new Mum I'm loving everything! I especially love it when Sophie nuzzles into my neck and falls asleep. I could just sit with her all snuggled up for hours. But the best thing is her cheeky little smile, and the little 'chats' that we have. I really could just go on all day!
ReplyDeleteAnd how cute is Abbey! She's got the gorgeous, very kissable cheeks just like Sophie!
Gosh, so much to love - watching the cogs of recognition turn as he absorbs and learns, having the opportunity to draw, paint, craft all day long. Getting to read and love kids books all over again. Watching the parts of his Dad and me that he's inherited come out in him and how he deals with them in his own way. The absolutely hilarious things he says and overhearing his conversations with himself,
ReplyDelete"hmm, which book would you like? Not that one, not that one, not that one, hmm, maybe this one, yes this one. That is a very good choice!" so freaking funny! But by far the thing that makes my heart sing is the affection and love he has brought into our lives. The unprompted hugs and kisses, the I love you's are beyond any description I could give them. Sorry about the essay. Somehow we don't talk about the great stuff about being a parent as much do we? Big hugs! Xx
I love the 'you can do it' part as well, Megan. It's so satisfying and joyous when you influence the very essence of 'self' like that!
ReplyDeleteMy favourite bit of being a parent is watching the relationship develop between my children. It is my utter joy every single day and makes me beyond proud. x