Going back is never about going backwards - life moves forwards indefinitely.
Things can be the same yet so, so different, all at the same time.
Feeling excited anticipation at spending time my daughter is lovely, but I don't want that every week long-term.
I have THE most supportive husband ever in the history of husbands.
It's odd that I don't want to work in an office long-term when I come home to a clean house, a roast dinner and a glass of wine awaiting me.
All the things I love to do can live happily ever after, together.
Maybe I do still want it all - but my idea of 'all' has changed.
Building a career on common sense and instinct was the smartest thing I ever did. They're not skills that fade or are forgotten.
Confidence can make a very speedy return.
Creating a new ending to a part of your life you look back on with bitterness is empowering.
Sometimes I have to know my limitations, keep my goals in mind and hold myself back. Just because I can see what will work doesn't mean I have to do it.
Working with people you like and respect will always inspire you.
My priorities in life haven't changed. It's just that now, I control them.
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What a privilege for us to have you share your life lessons, so that we may learn from you. Thank you.
Great post. Where do I come though, for that roast and red wine? ;-)
Sounds like you've been doing some thinking this week, hon. Lovin' it.
You are wise... :)
x
This post is inspiring. I remember when I had a new job situation and I was worried that I wouldn't have the same success I had had in another role. I was worried that my ideas were finite. I worried that I would be out of ideas. I was so relieved when I found inspiration and ideas flowed again. Now I'm more comfortable making changes if I need to. Your lesson about knowing limitations and choosing NOT to do something even though you have the vision for it really speaks to me. Thanks for your posts.
It sounds like you've learned a great deal. It really is inspiring.
Great post.
"Going back is never about going backwards - life moves forwards indefinitely." Wise words indeed, I shall be reminding myself of them often!
Yet another great post x
Confidence sure can make a speedy return. Glad to see it arrived!
Love the shoes!
I love the last line. powerful words for sure. have a great day.
Truly inspiring post. Really, I needed this. Thank you Megan.
And yeah, I am copying that last line. Loved it!
Love this post, one of my favorites...so amazing when life comes together!!! <3
So glad it was not as bad as you feared! Look forward to hearing what happens next!
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Keep on smiling!
I love that you said creating a new ending was empowering. I did not have the success I wanted on a project recently, and a new ending is just what I need. Thanks!
Beautiful. Beautiful! And you're right, the word 'all' has changed for me too. xx
You know, this is so insightful & I know the thinking, inner-wrestling that has happened in order for you to reach these realisations. You're wonderful Megan, truly! I love that you're "listening" to the message for you so intently & it's not clouded by the voices or expectations of others. Go you! Xxx
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